Would you consider eating dinner without him and not letting him eat the food? Instead, mention what you had so he knows you are still cooking the new exotic dishes. I would do this for a full 180 when you are ready for plan B. My only other suggestions for the 180 are let him get the tiniest glimpse of you looking all hot and sexy, but then leave and go dark, making him wonder where you are and miss you (and the cooking!). I bet that house is cold and lonely, even with baby, without you in it. If you must be home, then arrange for a girlfriend to call you and hole yourself up in your bedroom and chat quietly - again, he should wonder who you are talking to.
Exactly....except walk out the door with the food in hand. Let him smell it AND YOU.
Don't worry about cake eating. Once in a blue moon, let him eat cake. Just don't let him take the cake for granted.
Worrying about cake eating leads to conversations about boundaries. Talks about boundaries will not work.
Now....do not pre-plan and ASK him if he can babysit. Just tell him you'll be back in a couple of hours. And then do that. Whereveryo yuou go .....LAUGH. LAUGH YOUR ARSE OFF.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
