You deserve to be happy. You deserve a #10 relationship. It would be nice to get that with the mother of your children.
Originally Posted By: J Roberts
...I think the only way to heal is out of her presence at this point in time.
So, I want to suggest that you are also entitled to a break from the R to work on personal growth. I have read enough that I feel we all get to this point (feel lost, burned out, powerless and confused).
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I'm talking with her now about separation/divorce, and her only response is "do what you think you need to do
She has agreed to let you do what you need to do, so stop talking to spouse about R and begin caring for yourself and your sanity.
The books I have listed on my first post of my thread are worth reading.
Are you happy? If not, I feel it is very important to get to happy "ALL BY YOURSELF" while you are still married to W. I would like to suggest reading the RUIZ book "The Mastery of Love". Chapter 3 has great words of wisdom on this. The other two books by ruiz are great also.
You said you do not want to "Trick" your wife. How about peak her interest in you again and draw her to you? Want to have fun doing it? Read the art of seduction.
Have you ever given your W 8 or more orgasms in one night? If not how about reading "She comes first".
I also highly recommend reading "Boundaries" by Cloud.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
