Pls help--confused and fearful

[Day by Day]

Well, I sent it as I wrote it with the greeting and he replied nastily of course.

"Ok. I will pick them up the 24th at 9 pm and bring them up later that night.

Next time pls check with me before you make plans...as early or as late as they may be, so we can properly coordinate.

Thanks,
WAH"

I replied "Ditto". Grrr... he IS PUSHING MY BUTTONS H-A-R-D!! What a controlling jerk. I'm tired of being a pushover--for what?!

Well, heard from the kids that H had a (rental)car accident last week (remember I mentioned he scraped his car in the drive-thru twice). The airbag deployed really hard and he had sunglasses on so he has bruises under his eyes. Hmm. You can guess what I'm feeling about that...