ya no problem... Today she called me! WTF? so I really didnt say much when I answered my cell didnt even know who it was at first she went on to say it was her she called my lawyer and he gave her my cell number she started her usual crying and went on to say she didnt think she would beable to take the kids this weekend at all now (she was already looking to get rid of them on saturday night til sunday morning) she said her mom was drinking again and she didnt want the kids there with her like that... anyway I pretty much did the huh, K... responces to what she was saying.. then after I hungup she texted back some stuff about wanting me to text or call her after work and we should be able to discuss the kids... so idk whats with her really but I texted her asking when she wanted the kids and no responce at least not yet...
well shortly after writing this she started texting... I agreed to let her have messed up pick up and drop of type of deal she asked for.. she gets them saturday and sunday... both days she will pick them up in the morning and drop them off too.. so we ill see how it goes.. I hope she wont try and pull any more games than she already is
well today she didnt show at 9:00 like she said she would, I texted her and she said oh,, Im so sorry I ment 10:00.. (well what ever the kids were more pissed than me really I could have cared less I was enjoying the radio ) so she kept texting me about little things with the kids... mostly pointless junk that could wait.. and then she says oh my dad thinks he will watch the kids tonight so I will bring them sunday like normal
well she keeps texting me and i stopped replying cuz well its stupid junk...
so I get home and go and pay my neibor for getting my son all week and she tells me W wrote at like 8:00 am that she is finally off.. dating the 18 year old boy and she is so in love
so Im home watching tv, pc ect and I lay down to doze off and she texts me again to say her dad is watching the kids and she will see me sunday.. I say ok
then at about 10:00 or so she texts me again to thank me for that letter and papers but she wants to ask her consolers befor talking to the kids... she says it will be after x-mas so I never responded its late and for one I thought she would be out
anyway Im confused.... * she is in love with and seeing this kid * she goes WAY out of her way to get my number + crying yet works out keeping the kids???? * she keeps texting me about the kids * she never writes the kids on that e-mail account so???
I will admit even though I make no direct eye contact with W my hart still skipped a beat seeing her today
Hi WL, I think that she calls you because you are emotionally um, reliable I guess is the word for her. And the kid is well, a kid. Keep acting like an adult my friend- at some point, she will be seen for what she is- a cougar! lol, at 28!
Im actually surprised that your L gave her your number! What are you confused about? If she is continuing the A, do you think that you should still be there for her emotionally?
Yesterday was/would be my 6th wedding anniversary, and to be perfectly honest, I just kind of thought that, I dont know, I would hear from him in some way. Of course I didnt, and I probably would have been furious if I had , but I know the feeling that your talking about when you saw her.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
bluerain, I feel so bad for you! I guess like all of us here we know how bad it feels to still love there WAS no matter what they did and the pain they put us through.. I think the only thing here that / us is some of us are moving on and won't take the WAS back and the rest are trying to move on and hope WAS will come to there senses....
ya and I guess I should update stuff here soon since she is 29 now! and I really would like to know what flippin story she told my lawyer for him to give her my number.!!! mad!!!
I still have the hate/revenge in me that I need to get past but for now I guess I can vent enough to say im glad she is now in a "relation ship" with him ... both cheated with each other and even if W decided to be faithful... a 18 year old kid who already cheated on his GF is going to do the same to her!! and or will leave her like a bad habbit.. its almost funny that she thinks it will work.
I think alot of her up/dn calling me befor and wanting to hang out had to do with his interest in her and his last GF being around.... now that she is out of the picture W is in full WAS mode..
ya and I guess I should update stuff here soon since she is 29 now! and I really would like to know what flippin story she told my lawyer for him to give her my number.!!! mad!!!
I'm sure there is a law against divulging personal information. I'd verbally kick your L where it hurts.
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I think alot of her up/dn calling me befor and wanting to hang out had to do with his interest in her and his last GF being around.... now that she is out of the picture W is in full WAS mode..
I got the same treatment from W. After she moved out but before OM moved in she was always texting me and calling me. When he arrived on the scene that all stopped.
It's called being insecure. A common trait of adulterers, WAS, cheats and liars
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
ya so today i parked in between two trucks so she could not park right next to me ( i noticed she has been trying to park next to me more and more) well Im sitting there and I hear them pull in on the other side of one of the trucks.. so Im sitting there and they are taking there time and I open my car door to wait for the kids to come by my car and I see W look up over the truck right at me and made a point to make eye contact I have avoided eye contact with her for a very long time... I just dont get why she is doing this now.... its like a game????
Hi WL, I dont think that it matters why shes doing these things. The only thing that matters right now is that she has resumed the A. So... you treat her like a casual acquaintance. Nothing more. Its not about what works for getting her attention anymore- its about what works for you keeping your peace of mind.
I guess that she DB'd her OM didnt she?
And dont feel bad for me, things are going really well, and he sucks, I know that through and through. And like I said, I probably would have been very angry if he had tried to contact me.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
ya I will try not to read into it its just hard not to.. I want my space again!! it was nice it was doing wonders for healing.. I can say I just dont want her in my life.. if it wasn't for the kids I would have split the area
she started her usual crying and went on to say she didnt think she would beable to take the kids this weekend at all now (she was already looking to get rid of them on saturday night til sunday morning) she said her mom was drinking again and she didnt want the kids there with her like that... anyway I pretty much did the huh, K... responces to what she was saying.. then after I hungup she texted back some stuff about wanting me to text or call her after work and we should be able to discuss the kids... so idk whats with her really but I texted her asking when she wanted the kids and no responce at least not yet...
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, but I know the feeling that your talking about when you saw her. 
... both cheated with each other and even if W decided to be faithful... a 18 year old kid who already cheated on his GF is going to do the same to her!! and or will leave her like a bad habbit.. its almost funny that she thinks it will work. 