Dbd, it looks like you need to be cold and rude since he is really being a big jerk right now. (If my WH was that rude, I would NOT be doing Plan A!!!)

I agree with P. Say something like this without a greeting:


Quote:

You did not make previous plans with me regarding the Xmas holiday.You can pick them up at 9pm Christmas eve."

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004