Make it a real first date. Can you imagine insisting on counseling, various commitments etc..., when you first started dating someone? Dating is to learn whether you want to take the next step. So, learn together, don't try to figure everything out ahead of time.
I will do my best to do so. I am still very wary with my heart though. This woman trampled me pretty hard. If I had a girl friend who did this to me, I would cut her loose in a second. Her being with me for 16 years and being the mother of my child only gets her one more chance after all she's done. I am going into this with an open mind. We'll see what happens.
Thank you for your input. I do appreciate it.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
