It's a good compromise I suppose. I wouldn't tell him what your plans are just that you have plans and he can pick them up at 9pm on Xmas Eve. I would also not get into a conversation about it. Just tell me you are willing to compromise.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"