If nothing else, at least it's broken the stalemate. You're right though, I think she will still try to be controlling and I think you will need to try doubly hard to enforce your boundaries with her.
Good luck on Wednesday though!
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"