Yeah, I suppose that 'cheap brownie points' isn't really going to be seen as genuine change, and you're right, me telling her what a good guy I am isn't the way to go either, she has to figure that out for herself.
Will just let her know to expect kids XMas eve and that I'll get them 8:30ish. Nothing more and nothing less than that.
Thanks
H: 44 W: 42 Married: 23 years Bomb: 16/07/2009 PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010 Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010