get caught? phone? see each other less? slow it down see each other when we can? less?
i'm not living 18 more years this way?
Josh was right
Sounds like a plan to me, What do you think?
- finding "notes" while cleaning a car sounds like something she wrote down on paper Greek, it doesn't sound like email or texts.
Since you know she's still playing you, I'm not one to be spiteful but this kind of knowledge seems to good to give up in an exposure, it would almost be bittersweet to catch them together sometime at a restaurant or what other place they meet, douse them both with whatever they're drinking, make a scene and then walk away smiling LOL!
OB I'll tell you it's ugly what's happening here and she still feels like she can play and deceive you so that you don't proceed with a divorce that way she continue seeing the OM and keep you on the side for whatever purpose she has in store.
Or... here's another idea. Write real responses to her notes using a different colored ink pen and make them funny and end it with a note of your own, like "How stupid did you think I am?! Have a nice life sweety pie, TA TA!!!" and leave it in the driver's seat of the car, some nice little imagery indicating you're in the driver's seat.
