When Greek told you to realize that you would always love him....it made me think about something I read. It was speaking of fear. The idea a lot of people have is that we are suppose to stop being afraid "before" we act on certain things, but this author was saying to "do it in spite of the fear". I think she said something like...."Be afraid and do it anyway".

I guess what I'm thinking with all of this is that those who are able to stop loving their WAS are the lucky ones, in some ways....b/c of stopping the terrible pain. But for others, they will always have that love in their heart, so they just have to move on in spite of that love.

The time of year doesn't help with your feelings, either. I think you can expect to keep experiencing a lot of emotions......and even that "love" to pop up when you thought it was all gone.

You can do this, sweetheart.



It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!