yeah...want to shake her up but scared to push her away. all the advice is to try to gain respect, be unavailable, GAL. It is hard. I'm trying to go out a bit. But she most of the time wants me included . Like i said, gym, church, movies, lunch or dinner out. today we went to church, lunch , then shopping for a bit. How do i get her to want more than this "friendship"?
You answered your own question I think - "be unavailable, GAL."
Women want what they can't have - unavailable men. Be unavailable and she may come around. It is very hard, especially when you don't want to push her away. But you can either have a friendship or an M - choose which one and then work towards it.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
