Your W will probably ask you what you plan to tell the parents about the M. When she asks you, tell her that you will not bring the subject up, but that if the parents ask anything that you will not lie for her. She won't like that answer.....but she needs to be told that to see you are not going to be her puppet any longer. If she is going to walk-away or have an A, then you are not going to cover up for her....right? The sooner you start to show self-respect, confidence, and strength.....the sooner she will respect you.

Time to start making plans without her so that you will stop being so available to her.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!