Did not get sad though, just started DB'ing the TV. Went totally dark on that thing. Heck, it is sharing a house with me, I am not even interested in what it has to say right now.
I love that!
I had sent a pretty long response to your post over at Sandi's Place, so I don't know if you read that before you came back here. I don't want to bore you with repeating myself.
About your BIL.....our close friends and family can get very angry b/c they have strong opinions/emotions toward us and our S. I do not agree with your BIL's advice to you. I understand why he is saying that, but Pat it will not work with a WAW, and expecially one who is in an A! I hope you will trust me about. It would be about the worst thing you could do, IMHO. I don't know why he reacted so badly about the DB board, but he probably does not agree with the techniques and think we are all a bunch of nuts. It would probably be in your best interest to not discuss your MR or what you have been advised.....since he has such strong feelings, b/c it will only serve to upset you.
He may think this is like a chat room or something, but unless a person has been in your shoes.....and has come here to the DB board, they don't really understand. You may have to do BIL like you would your W if she tried to talk R talk.....and hold up your hand in a stop position and say, "I really do not want to talk about it". Kind of hard to discuss something with a person who doesn't talk.....
As I said....I talked about the E-book over on my thread, but if you have any questions, let me know.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
I love that!
