Wish I had advice for you, but I'm in the same sitch. I hope to hear from others that respond to you about R. I don't see hope in my sitch either. I only was able to semi-confront via email. It didn't do anything to change things. There's no remorse from WAH. I also want full custody of kids.
I was told by OW's ex H through a message on FB.
{{Counting Crows}}
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10