thanks for the 2 replys so far. I am fighting back tears, this is so painful. I had made up my mind to confront this weekend, but just couldn't because of the physical affection I have been receiving that I have been longing for. Another thing I forgot to mention is the pattern. The OM is married with 3 kids. On weekends, their communication is much, much less (but still a little there). Every weekend my W and I make progress only to lose ground during the week as the W and OM communicate
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11