I just checked out the 180 list and saw a few I need to work on now...
like not initiating conversation, don't talk about myself, and look him in the eyes when he is talking/don't interrupt.

I am a talker though and love to talk about our son with him!
this will be tough but I will do it today (there is no try, only do!)

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004