Why don't you delete the FB account? Have her do the same if she has one... You can always create a new account later on, w/both of you have complete transparency.
I hate to be DebbieDowner, because I think it's a control thing w/her. And, would probably just be the impetus to another "demand," HOWEVER, what do you have to lose?
Also, unless I missed something, the female on your fb account isn't an inappropriate contact, right? YOU are separated from a wife that chose infidelity and a R w/OM (that has since left HER). I'm not for dating, but talking to a friend, w/out initiating anything else, or committing your emotions to them isn't inappropriate.
Just my two cents!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
