Thanks for checking in. You are right. I'm spinning now while doing the paperwork. Just seeing all the things that still connect us. It feels we are divorced without the official word. I'm really hoping you are right newmama about Christmas having an effect on him (if he can get in touch with his heart).
I replied: "Hello H,
Responding to your email about Xmas plans.
I made plans for them for the 24th evening already. You can spend time with them on the 25th or early the 24th. I need them by 3pm the 24th."
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10
It feels we are divorced without the official word. I'm really hoping you are right newmama about Christmas having an effect on him (if he can get in touch with his heart).
