I would think that with hard work, you and W could have a wonderful R in the future. Forgiveness is the key. You both have to find a way to forive each other.
I have a friend that has went thru something similiar, and he tells me that his R is stronger now than it has ever been. Of course, it doesn't work that way for everyone. But, if both of you choose the R, commit to each other and the work it is gonna take, with a very good pro M C, I think you guys can. Someone is gonna have to give a bit here.
If you want her back, then try. Can't hurt any more than what is happening now. But you both have to choose....
Me 43 / W 40 T 29 / M 15 S-18 11/4/09-ILYBINILWY 11/10/09-Separated 12/1/09-W admitted EA 12/5/09-W admitted PA 12/24/09 W say "I love you"
"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"
