I agree with sadgirl. It is not D's fault. MIL prob really care for your D.
You would support your D if she were in this situation wouldn't you. That what MIL & FIL are doing. All because they are supporting ur W does not mean they agree with her.
This, I am sure, has an ill affect on them also.
W is blood, you are water....
hang in there my friend.
BTW... let D have the gifts...
Me 43 / W 40 T 29 / M 15 S-18 11/4/09-ILYBINILWY 11/10/09-Separated 12/1/09-W admitted EA 12/5/09-W admitted PA 12/24/09 W say "I love you"
"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"