I am in a similiar situation (minus the finances), my W is with OM and taking him everywhere. Family function and all. I, too, do not know what to do and want desparately to save M.
I will pray fro you and check in from time to time... God Bless you DbD
Me 43 / W 40 T 29 / M 15 S-18 11/4/09-ILYBINILWY 11/10/09-Separated 12/1/09-W admitted EA 12/5/09-W admitted PA 12/24/09 W say "I love you"
"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"