Pls help--confused and fearful

[Day by Day]

I need to keep it short and simple, right.

Wow he doesn't want to spend that much time with them. Only a few hours on Xmas eve and not Xmas day.

Not me about the invite... I did not invite him over and his parents live out of the country.

Yeah, he's trying to get me to break NC. How can I use this to my advantage?