Need Avice.... very confused.

W and I are really not talking much.

Went to church this morning (W doesn't go right now), and BIL needed ride. BIL is not part of W fam, is on my side of fam.

Anyway, he tells me that I should just go and get wife... just tell her like it is, and if she doesn't want to come than F it.

He was yelling when he said these things, trapped in car with him on way home.

He tells me that this forum is bad and I am stupid if I just think not speaking to her going to bring her back.

I do not know what to do right now. I was doing good for last several days, but today after BIL thing... I am really way down..

Just need someone to talk too...

Help

Me 43 / W 40
T 29 / M 15
S-18
11/4/09-ILYBINILWY
11/10/09-Separated
12/1/09-W admitted EA
12/5/09-W admitted PA
12/24/09 W say "I love you"


"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"