The Truth Hurts

[CountingCrows]

So, I'm trying to figure out when to confront W with the fact that I now know EVERYTHING, and how to approach the confrontation. I had invited her to spend Christmas Eve and Christmas day with S7 and I so she wouldn't have to spend it alone, but don't want to do that now.

I want to tell W that I'm divorcing her. I feel like I just need to retain a atty this week. But, I don't want to give away too much, too soon, and mess up any chances I have at retaining full custody of S7.

I also want to expose W's A to OM's girlfriend, as I feel that she has a right to know what's going on, but again, not sure how to approach this.

Has anyone out there been betrayed and deceived multiple times like this and been able to work through it and reconcile M? I see next to no hope whatsoever now, and don't know if I could even if she truly wanted to try.