Now I'm in the position of needing to file for D. H has cut of money to me. I'm a SAHM, so I have no income other than his. I'm in deep trouble as I don't have more than a couple thousand in savings that he left me. And he stuck me with a 5500k property tax bill to pay.
I've ignored all his text messages saying to get a lawyer, get a job, and I've stayed NC. But now I'm feeling I NEED to initiate contact. While we were contacting, I was being upbeat and friendly and no R talk, but he had a huge pullback and got nasty again. OW's ex H has been hassling them. They seem to feel it's "us against the world" and getting closer.
How does it sound if I give in with the NC since I'm in such a tight spot? I guess he's "won" with getting me to talk since he has the finances over me. I've met with a lawyer and getting ready to file, but maybe I should tell him?
