Pls help--confused and fearful

[newmama]

Ok, I can "talk it out" with you in the meantime...
but with OW in the picture for now, I don't think you will get a positive result in the beginning.
What are your goals for mediation? to obtain financial support and custody? Is it possible to get a separation instead of D?

Ok and here's worst case scenario: the divorce happens. 2 years later WAS is kicking himself because you are happily living your life, pursuing your career, dating. He will try to get you back...