Hi Shasha.

Welcome.

Have you read this book?
Not "Just Friends": Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity - Shirley P. Glass

Can you give us some additional info.

Age's Length of marriage, relationship. Kids ? Lenght of EA.

Why did you enter an EA? Why did you end the EA ?

Have you detatched from the op ? Have you addressed the boundary issue you have with the opposite sex ?

What were some of the other problems in the Marriage ?

What have you been doing for your self in all this ?

Here is a hug for you today.

{{hug}}

I understand why your husband is acting that way towards you.
He is detaching. He does not trust you. He is in the dark.

Take Care.

And write back.

Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!