I guess I need to just have patience and hope that with her time alone she will miss the family we had, not everything was bad and think about coming back and working on things. Like I said she seems willing to try counseling, so that's a positive sign. As for the retrovaille, maybe down the road. A good thing is that as more time goes by I am realizing that the problems are not only mine, we both contributed to this mess.

She just picked up my son. Very cold, but I was pleasant, said Hi. Did not apologize though. It's a beautiful day in Austin so I will take a nice 20 mile ride on my new bike today to get my mind off things!