but if he left ME - if I was teh problem then why is he not being a father/dad to the kids? why does he only contact d13 on the friday he comes to pick her up? what is wrong with him??
Seriously - i understnad (dont like it) but i get that he wanted away from me...but his kids??!!! this is just ridiculous.
I don't understand it either. It seems that it's not just us that they are running away from, but responsibility of any type, including the kids. My W does the same thing. She knows that she could drop by after work any evening, or at least call S7 around bedtime to tell him goodnight, but never has done that since she left. It's selfishness at its worse, probably mixed with a good dose of guilt that causes them to act this way.
Me 45 WAW 36 S8 T 15 M 12 Multiple PA's since 6/07 W moved out 10/25/09 I filed D 12/29/09 Sitch
