It won't be easy during the holidays, but soon you will see that you can't make your W angry, it's her choice. I'm sorry your W chose to have an EA, and although that was not my sitch, I've come to learn that some of the guys here have good advice when there is an active third party in the mix.
Christmas 2009 will certainly be one for the books.
I just think it's too early to throw in the towel. (Unless I'm missing something?) Peace.
Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse S:22, S:19, D:16 Filed Oct 08, dismissed Filed again Jan 10, dismissed Now Piecing alter persona: SuperBoots
