Just want my H back

[goldeylox]

Well, if my memory serves me, you have clearly gone more than halfway to define what it is you want.
If I recall, you had checked out Retro, and he simply would not make the phone call. Doesn't sound like we have two people willing to commit to even a weekend.
Sleep on it. Take a few days. I hate to say this, but at least there aren't any kids. Believe me, it can be worse.
Are you in the alt? Peace.
Goldey