So baby and I were at the park yesterday and my phone went off with a text from a strange number. It said "hi So2 this is MGF. You don't have to, but i would appreciate a text or a call back. I just want to clear some things up." I had a feeling I knew what she was calling for. I waited and I prayed on what to do. Do I really want to get involved? But then I remember when OW talked to me and it was very clarifying for both of us. I sent a text back and we ended up having a good conversation. He is doing the same thing to her that he did to countless others. She suspected other women in his life and he was pulling away. At first I kept my mouth shut but I can tell she felt like the Lone Ranger and i finally told her that she wasn't the first with this and most likely not the last. She got mad and took their pic off of fb, all the while he was texting her and texting me at the same time. Wow. He really hasn't changed.
So, it was a good conversation and i did tell her that if there was any way to reconcile her marriage than she should. Divorce is hard and it sucks. There seem to be way more frogs than prince charmings out there (no offense DB guys..you are princes).
We will see what she does now. She may go back to him. She may not.
He did tell her he hasn't cheated on anyone and his reputation of cheating with OW while I was pregnant was false. He told her that he is a victim of rumors. Yeah right!
God is really opening my eyes and providing great opportunities these past few days to see what is really going on and help others.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
