I was "with" you that morning your HUSBAND brought his HO to YOUR HOME. (caps for emphasis - I'm not yelling at you, AFG) Now that you are taking LEGAL action - now that he KNOWS you are taking legal action and not just rolling over - all of a sudden he has found tears. Girl - was he SAD the morning you were sitting in your kitchen while he walked through the house with OW? Or skiing with her?
I know you still love him. Get used to the fact that you always will. But AFG ~~~ this is a man who admits he THOUGHT WHAT HE DID WOULD BE OK! I don't put it past his character for one minute to turn on the water works, soft words and tender gestures to get you to dial back on your legal work. He is STILL ALL ABOUT HIM.
AFG ~~~ BEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE CAREFUL! Greek
Hi Greek. I will be forever grateful that you were "with" me that day. I am trying to be careful as you have advised as I know that underlying in part is H's fear about what is coming towards him during this process. And yes, with his addiction in full active force right now, it is still only about him, which I also recognize. Will keep trying to pick back up and get on with me.
Me-34 XH-33 No Kids We were M-12Y T-15Y 5/09 Same house-separate bedrooms 01/10 I filed for D / H moved out 09/16/10 Divorced
