Thanks, it's just confusing. You want her to want to come back, so you think you need to be nice and everything, but then again from what I've read you don't want to be doormat or clingy. I guess you just need to move forward and do stuff for yourself and she will follow if she wants.
At least she is out of the house now. It was very hard with her around all the time. Kept wanting to talk to her about the R and that was never a good conversation. Now I can give her her space (if she takes it!). I think it is rougher on her being away from son. She is very attached to him, one of my issues with her. I don't ever want to use my son as a tool, but I think time away from him as well might do her some good. I know she is havings ome problems financially with getting anew place and I will only help if it is absolutely necessary, or impacts sons way of life. I am stuck in old house with high mortgage payment while I fix it to sell. Once the house sells, I think it will be time for a decision. She has told me that her lease can broken whenever, so we will see what happens. Gotta give the MC a chance and see where we go fro there.
