Thanks for the support all. I just hated to be an a$$hole at Christmas, but I have to keep telling myself that this wasn't my decision. I hated to tell my son that Christmas is going to be different from now on. I hope she is seeing the same thing.
Just keep remembering - she chose to walk away. If you allow her to easily slot back in and out of your life then she is cake eating and that will never give her the kick she needs to reliase what she's doing.
Actions = Consequences
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
