DBD, I don't understand why you are "embarrassed" to want to talk to WH about it at mediation? I do not think you should tell him that you are filing. But I don't know what happens regarding next steps after he is served....if LBS wants to stop the divorce/ get WAS back, what do they do then? Stall? What else? I have heard divorce takes a long time to complete.
I'm thinking about asking WAH to go to mediation as he asked. I am NC now, but since I'm in such a difficult position I'm thinking of just saying that we should go to mediation like he had asked. He's put me in the position of being between a rock and a hard place with stopping money.
I want to talk it out here of what might happen if I email him today to agree to go to mediation. I have my lawyer like he's been asked about. I don't know. He's so angry at me. I'll have to be so strong to deal with him. Don't know if I could do any DBing during that. Any thoughts?
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10
