I do want things to work out between us, I just don't think she has really thought it all through as far as what the consequences might be. I guess I was using some "tough love", although I did not want to upset her. I've been trying so hard not to send an e-mail apologizing. As far as the OM, there was an EA earlier on, but I don't think it's happening now. Maybe it is, I don't know, or maybe I don't want to know.

We had started MC right before she moved out and put that on hold for a month. She had finally agreed after I had kept pressing the issue. I thought it might be best to let her spend a month solo before starting back, so I scheduled an appointment so I had something definite.

This is a crazy ride to be on, happy one day and everything's fine, then the next day drama. Hope I can make it. It's great to read what others are going through here.