There is a forum for WAS that I would try to post in. On the other side of the sitch just now and in your H's shoes so can't really advise much or feel that if I could it probably wouldn't be right anyway!
I'm glad you you have come out of the FOG and wanted to fight for your M. I just wish my W would.
Good luck.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"