Hey Julia, thanx for the compliment. That was something I figured out long ago. I could either live, learn & try to understand the mistakes I made or kick myself down forever for them.
My other type of "motto" that I threw out the window when my xh left was: I don't want someone who doesn't want me. (If my partner is unhappy & doesn't want to be with me, then I don't want them. And they are Free to leave). Maybe I should have stuck to that one - eh?
Last Tue. was my M anniversary. Strange how it still sticks in my head. The only day that was a happy date was that day.
I'm doing well - thanx for asking. I've gotten off the rollercoater, quite a while ago, actually. Life is good and I'm happy. Gotta spend my weekend cleaning this pig pen of a house up!
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
Actually, I got most of the stuff on my list done. So it was a very productive weekend. I got out the latter, & cheapo tree trimmer & trimmed/pruned my trees. I can't believe I didn't fall off the latter & kill myself. Heck, I didn't even break a nail & I have some pretty long "real" nails!! LOL
Went to see the Michael Moore movie Capitalism: A Love Story with some friends. Very good movie, if you are a liberal. hehe
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11
Don't do that.