She's testing the waters and yes, wants to stir the pot up and ruin the holidays for you and your h. I have a feeling she's alone and is hoping that your h would respond to her. If she had the nerve to post a note to your h, she very may well be brazen enough to respond back to you.
She really is a piece of work and one that is not out of your life just yet. She almost accomplished what she set out to do, i.e., create doubt in the minds of both you and your h.
Please do not allow this woman to ruin your holidays.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
