I won't give up on you. Just don't make any decisions right now about the other friend your family likes. If your heart is still in love with your W, then you need to get past that before you try to have a real R with OW. If you can have a friendship with her without it breaking her heart......then it may help you. Sounds like you are caught between these two women. Your kids desires puts a lot of pressure on you. Just be careful.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
