DBD, I don't understand why you are "embarrassed" to want to talk to WH about it at mediation? I do not think you should tell him that you are filing. But I don't know what happens regarding next steps after he is served....if LBS wants to stop the divorce/ get WAS back, what do they do then? Stall? What else? I have heard divorce takes a long time to complete.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
