Dont try to figure him out. The point is that hes trying to be in contact with you AFTER YOU WENT DARK, right? See girly, this has worked! When he texts you, wait a while to answer and keep the reply calm, cool and confident, and short. Dont be needy- I will say that again- Do not be needy. I think that one of the reasons that he has started to get back in touch with you is because you havent been needy, you have been dark and he has started to wonder whats up with you.

Now, if you want to stay married you have got to get a hold of yourself. Im sorry for the tough love, but you have to do this and get focused.

-Dont try to read his mind.
-Dont be needy.
-Dont be pathetic.
-Dont try to interperet his actions/inactions
-Focus on yourself and what you can do to make yourself happy.
-Take care of yourself.

Do you do to church? Pray, remember that saying "Be still and know that I am"? You need to be still. Settle down, quiet your mind and calm down. The world will keep turning, your heart will keep beating, your daughter will still love you and I promise you that the sun will come up tomorrow, and because of all of that- you WILL be ok.

I know that your hurting- lots of people on here have been through really similar situations, and we all know how bad that this hurts, but every single person on here will tell you that you have got to get a hold of your emotions.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...