New here. Married for 14 years, together 18, have S13. I had the bomb dropped on Oct. 23. Took wife for granted, she thought I hated her for getting pregnant, been unhappy for 10-12 years. She has lost a lot of weight, looks great, I didn't tell her enough.
Started with me moving to my folks for about a month, then back into house after a burglary in neighborhood (later she said she asked me back because it was tough on son). Now she has moved out on Dec.15. Things were going well since she left. She was separating to have her own space and see if she would miss me. We are sharing time with S13. Today was my day and she was going to come over and decorate the tree in our/my house. We did and then she stays and wants to watch a movie together. Son is uncomfortable and then I say to wife that son and I had plans. She gets pissed and storms out. I follow her out and try to explain that since she wanted the separation she shouldn't be coming over to hang out. She also stopped by in the morning as well.
I have been trying to detach and let her make contact if she wants, but i guess I'm afraid I may have hurt her by asking her to leave. I know I'm only at the beginning of this ride, but I guess I'm offering up my sitch for any advice. Thanks in advance for any input, been lurking awhile.
