Hi SD. I wanted to see my H suffer too. I think thats one of the big reasons that I reported him to his captain. It happened a little bit at a time, and now he is stuck in long term unhappiness, so I enjoy that a little. Maybe it makes me not quite as good of a person as others, but eh, Im really not that worried about it. And when the OW dumped him, it broke his heart, and I think thats when his suffering really started. Thats when his fantasy crashed and burned, and he realized that he had given up everything for someone who didnt really care about him at all.

Ill bet dollars to doughnuts that this guy in Dallas flies to other cities and has other women in them. She will get hers, and you, operating with strength and honor, will be able to hold your head high and know that you always did the right thing, even when it wasnt easy.


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...