well, I just saw this post and I have to say your WAW is VERY similar to mine... yes be very prepared for the worst... we were getting along very well like you just did but the problem was I was the OM in her eyes...
I hope you can see this.. its not that your a bad guy or did anything wrong. its her way of justifying what she has done... you didn't love her enough ect what ever makes her feel You screwed up she had to do what she did
"The good out weights the bad" thats what is in her confused little head.
my WAW had issues where she had to contact me everyday and heck even now she found a way to get my number AGAIN!!! and now she is "dating " OM and is "so in love" (figure that out)
so like im saying she might not be with OM right now but if she is like my WAW she will be with in the year.
So my best and I mean best advice is GAL dont pretend.. find what makes you happy, dont let those thoughts get to you too much.. I had them and still do.. the OM can bring you to your knees but keep at it you will get past this. you will be a better person. (I know this is a broken record but really... she needs to chase you... you need to worry about your hobby, kids and job befor her.. she is the bottom of your list of to do! and she needs to see this, not in a hey look im ignoring you!... )
the thing overlooked here is many times the WAS wont truily miss you for years yes YEARS idk if its the fact most LBS take that long to truily GAL or if its a combo of there failed attemps and a happier place and your GAL but it seems common place
your kids will and most likely already do respect you and not her... mine have little respect for W and although they love and miss her they dont trust her (once your kids loose your trust you are in a bad spot)
hope what I wrote helps but I can say for sure she has to be an after thought for you to get past her or to get her back...
