Played some phone tag with W last night, left her a voice mail, then went to a party with some friends. Had a great time.

I need to e-mail W with the results of my tax work. If she's still going through with the divorce, I'll give her a choice of 1. Filing Married Separate 2. Making up the difference to me if we file Joint. This would save us money overall, but would still cost her $1900.

How do I put this without sounding vindictive? I'll work on an e-mail and post it here.


Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK