Man how can 2 people be so dumb ??? In between bouts of "OK sh!t happens, deal with it" and uncontrollable sobbing, I actually get a little bit of time to laugh at what we're doing to each other and our family.

We've classically fallen into the Divorce Trap. Each action/reaction drives the next - and have been doing the same thing for years.

I know one of us has to stop the spiral, and it will be me.

I'm not a religious person my any means but I do hope that 'something' can give me the strength to stay the course.


H: 44
W: 42
Married: 23 years
Bomb: 16/07/2009
PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010
Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010