I sit and wonder now if she will even reply to my email. In my email I did appologize for all the nasty things I said to her when I found about the affair...I told her in my defense I was blind-sided but none the less I am sorry (I allowed lowered myself by name calling)...then respectfully asked that she let us live our lives in peace that H had no desire to have any contact with her either...
I forwarded part of the email he sent to me (the part that said "I love you")with his forwarding of her email to me so she will know that he sent me her email...
It just bothers me because she said "Don't ask me how I got your email, funny actually"...he said he got another email and it may have sent out contact information...I know he hasn't contacted her...I just can't believe after all this time...last he emailed her she was in a relationship and happy...I just have a gut feeling that things have changed...she had already been married several times and had 4 kids...probably one from each husband...and she was only 32 yrs. old then!
